True love…. so you found you're soul mate... Now you have it Keeping it is simple.
The single most important thing is staying honest with yourself and your mate. 100 percent no secrets that includes feelings as well as actions and thoughts It is natural to have a real desire toshare everything without question. Honesty of the heart .
Never ever forget the way you saw that person in your mind when you fell in love. We all have our own set of idiosyncrasies; respect that as being a part of them as much as you respect yours for your own. When you are with the one you will feel your best. You want to be your best. You want the very best for them.
Sometimes, you find yourself feeling insecure. Did you snap and say something hurtful because work stressed you out? Often we lash out to the people who we feel will overlook it, the one who loves us unconditionally, who will easily forgive us. If that happens you must immediately recognize and apologize. Our words may be said in haste but they may cause deep hurt on the other..creating insecurity. Thus problems begin.
Showing consideration towards your mate should come naturally. The policy my husband and I have is what I call 100 percent disclosure at the moment there is a problem recognized (or in some cases when one of recognizes the other is stressing.. we simply ask). Openly talking about how we feel. In order for this to be effective you both must know you can say anything without being judged. Remember this is your soul mate, your true love. Look at them with that prospective.
Be 100 percent honest. That easy you know exactly where you stand and squashing any doubt and insecurities. Fairytale romance is reality, your once upon a time happily ever after is achievable. When I look at my husband I see my prince charming (we have been married for 6 years) We had our problems, but using our disclosure policy we were able to reclaim our fairytale love.
Doing little random things..from leaving little love notes to doing their chores once and awhile shows you are thinking of them. You have put them before yourself, show them they are loved and valued. When I put away laundry I sometimes feel overwhelmed by just thinking of him as I put his clothes away. ..memories flood my mind and heart.
We take time for us, cuddle time, game time, relaxation time, chore time, cooking; we do things together. We are a team.
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